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Family & children

Help with separation, divorce, and arrangements for children. This page explains, in general terms, what kind of support exists — it does not tell you what will happen in your own case.

What kind of help is out there?

If you're separating from a partner, or you need to sort out where children will live and how they'll spend time with each parent, there are several routes to help:

  • Family mediation — a trained, neutral mediator helps both people talk through arrangements for children, money or property, without going to court. Courts usually expect you to consider mediation first.
  • Cafcass — the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service. If a family court case involves children, Cafcass may be involved to make sure the children's welfare is considered.
  • Family court — if agreement can't be reached, a court can decide. Many people represent themselves; free support for this exists (see below).
  • Legal aid — may be available for some family cases, particularly where there is evidence of domestic abuse or child protection concerns. Use the official checker to find out.

Trusted services

Cafcass

Independent service that represents children's interests in family court cases in England.

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Civil Legal Advice

Check if you qualify for legal aid for a family law problem, and get connected with a solicitor if you do.

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Telephone: 0345 345 4 345

Citizens Advice

Free guidance on separation, divorce, and what to expect from the family court process.

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Law centres

Free legal help from local, not-for-profit specialists, including in family law.

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Support Through Court

Free, practical support if you're representing yourself in family court without a solicitor.

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GOV.UK guidance

Official step-by-step guidance on separating, mediation, and child arrangements.

Child arrangements on GOV.UK (opens in a new tab)

A few terms explained

Child arrangements order
A court order that sets out who a child lives with and when they spend time with each parent.
Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM)
A first meeting to explain mediation and check if it's suitable, often required before applying to family court.
Cafcass
An independent organisation that looks after children's interests in family court proceedings.

Read more about legal aid and how to check if you qualify →